comments on Eat, Pray, Love

I lost my passion to finish this novel at its Itatly part. It started to make me bored with those tiny details about the eating things, maybe because I'm not that into that culture.

But what I do remember vividly the paragraph describing her talk with God. I'm kind of lost my life target now, and I did try the talk in her way, and I find it works, cause I had already done a great lot of meditation before that and it was too complicated for me to figure out a clear way. But that talk with God did make me alert with at least what I should do as preparation.

I think, no matter in US or China, most of us are not that brave to end up a relationship that Eliz has, from our perspective, it is a happy family and a happy life that she has. You have a big house, a husband loves you, and your successful career, what else are you expecting? But it seems not all these about.

When I was at 20s and not married, I thought it was no big deal to marry a person that you don't love that much. But as soon as you are attached to the family life, you will find out that a right person that you will spend the rest of your life with does matter. It's our culture our loved ones surrounding us keep telling us to not break up the family so easily, we are adults, we are responsible to them.  Who's responsible to our own life? Ourselves too.  Really be carefull before you engaged with someone, and take your time to find out if he's the Mr.Right. Life is short while long, so stop thinking that you can deal with it simply. A choice you made for your life determines a great lot in your down life road.

What if we already in this situation?  Even if you have no courage to end your marriage up, please be brave to take some trip and do more reading, and keep learning to boost yourself up! You have to especially if you are parent, you need to set up the positive world attitude to your children. 

So, arrange your children and other important thing well, travel more and feed yourself more!